Gay dating. Where do I even start?

[TonyAndonuts]

Okay so, I feel like I've changed a significant amount since I first came onto this site. I used to be a guy worrying if I might be bisexual because I enjoyed watching gay porn. Even though I did, I wasn't sure if it really meant anything because I didn't feel like I saw men in "that way" in real life, only in porn. Now it's a whole different story. Months later and I'm STILL watching gay porn, I stare at hot guys around me all the time, and I realized that I've actually always done this but tried to stop myself and think that it's nothing. While I used to lean toward being straight and the gay part of me not being important, now I'm leaning much more toward being bisexual or maybe even gay because guys seem to be my main focus lately; which really confuses me because I've liked girls for over 20 years and now I'm suddenly not as interested??

But the reason I still put myself under "Single Curious Man" and not "Bisexual" is because I'm still not sure if I can say for sure what I am since I haven't had any experience sexually or relationship wise. I'm not a very social person. All my life I've kept to myself and didn't want to interact with anyone else because all I saw around me were a bunch of loud and obnoxious morons. I've been trying to change that lately and be more social, but for the most part I still spend most of my time alone in my dorm room surfing the web or playing video games. Now, I do want a relationship. I really do. I'm 22 years old and never kissed anyone, I should probably step it up. But the thing is, I don't even know where I'd start, especially since now I'm interested in finding a guy too.

I'll admit, one reason why I want to meet a guy is because I'm curious if I'll actually feel something for the same-sex. Is my attraction to guys real or all in my head/penis? But it's not like I can just see a hot guy and go in for it. One, because I'm way too shy to even do that and two, because the guy is probably straight. Gay people don't just go around with a bell on their neck letting other people know that they're gay, so it's harder to actually find one. So my question is, how do I find one? I've heard about gay dating apps like Grindr which lets you know which gay people are in your area. But I've also heard that those apps can be dangerous. I am trying to actually take more action or I'll be single the rest of my life, but I also don't want to blindly leap into something I might regret later on. But even with the help of a gay dating app, I feel like my options might be limited. I'm a college student with no car, so I'm kind of stuck on campus. So my best options would be guys on campus, but I don't know how many there actually are. I went to one gay on-campus event once, but most of the people there were lesbians. So I get the feeling that there aren't very many openly gay male students on campus. I mean, I haven't used Grindr yet so maybe that'll tell me otherwise, but I'm also not sure if Grindr is even a good idea to use. I've heard bad things about it....

Sooo, yeah, I don't know where to start. What do you guys think? If you're in a relationship, where did you two meet? Are there any fellow college students that managed to find someone?