03-26-2007, 04:56 PM
Met this this guy a year ago , we had a fling then met him again 4 months ago and we thought we should start dating. You can expect some problems as he is often away for weeks traveling for work, and the occasional jealousy from both sides but it has been ok or at least i manage to have control over my jealousy and his.
I feel that he is easily distracted when we are together talking or anything else. Asked him before if there is something wrong, if something worries him. He says is the work, the jet lag and sex is great. Can understand the jet lag but he has a couple of days before we meet to get over it and can understand worrying about work I have a very demanding job too. But if sex is great you at least enjoy it when u having it, if not say it so we to resolve it. Is clarity too much to ask for?
A little sample of how things are. Last night we were together doing our thing after he has been away for 12 days. Then his phone rings answers and talks for a good 20 mins to a friend and thats how our night ended . I am pissed me off not because of the sex we didn't have or him talking to his friend. But because when u don't see someone for days and calls every day very enthusiastically you don't expect to get this when u see him. Made me feel i don't know how...My sex drive is too high, i am shit, i am crap in bed, crap to be with dunno what is it.
Told him today at lunch time that this is not going to work and as much i love him the best thing is to walk out of this relationship. He said he was expecting it , he is sorry and try to make it work but i left. He will find a way to twist it around and do the same.
Sounds stupid but i am really confused now. Don't know what to make of this situation, it's something new. Perhaps he is ok and i have an attitude problem. Not sure if i did the right thing or i over reacted either way i am feeling sad. I have feelings for him. Would you do something differently?
Any opinions will be appreciated.
mile:
I feel that he is easily distracted when we are together talking or anything else. Asked him before if there is something wrong, if something worries him. He says is the work, the jet lag and sex is great. Can understand the jet lag but he has a couple of days before we meet to get over it and can understand worrying about work I have a very demanding job too. But if sex is great you at least enjoy it when u having it, if not say it so we to resolve it. Is clarity too much to ask for?
A little sample of how things are. Last night we were together doing our thing after he has been away for 12 days. Then his phone rings answers and talks for a good 20 mins to a friend and thats how our night ended . I am pissed me off not because of the sex we didn't have or him talking to his friend. But because when u don't see someone for days and calls every day very enthusiastically you don't expect to get this when u see him. Made me feel i don't know how...My sex drive is too high, i am shit, i am crap in bed, crap to be with dunno what is it.
Told him today at lunch time that this is not going to work and as much i love him the best thing is to walk out of this relationship. He said he was expecting it , he is sorry and try to make it work but i left. He will find a way to twist it around and do the same.
Sounds stupid but i am really confused now. Don't know what to make of this situation, it's something new. Perhaps he is ok and i have an attitude problem. Not sure if i did the right thing or i over reacted either way i am feeling sad. I have feelings for him. Would you do something differently?
Any opinions will be appreciated.
mile:
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