08-19-2012, 08:49 PM
Why is the sky blue? Why can't we separate the wave from the shore? Is there a God?... Some questions can be answered, others we can't answer and thus can only spin our wheels in speculation about them.
Right now you are still in that relationship. Yes I know, you left, you haven't seen him for x number of days, hours, minutes seconds. You haven't touched him, kissed him, had sex with him and might even have deleted him from your phone.
But you are still IN a relationship with him. you are still investing lots of time and energy in this 'relationship'.
No one can answer any of those 'whys' for you. I doubt even he could.
You will stew on them anyway. Its human nature, however I think if you start working on understanding that you will not get answers - real solid truths here, the sooner you will completely end this relationship.
Right now you are still in that relationship. Yes I know, you left, you haven't seen him for x number of days, hours, minutes seconds. You haven't touched him, kissed him, had sex with him and might even have deleted him from your phone.
But you are still IN a relationship with him. you are still investing lots of time and energy in this 'relationship'.
No one can answer any of those 'whys' for you. I doubt even he could.
You will stew on them anyway. Its human nature, however I think if you start working on understanding that you will not get answers - real solid truths here, the sooner you will completely end this relationship.