08-21-2012, 03:59 PM
I think it depends on the individuals involved as to whether you can stay in a hetero marriage or not.
In your case, if she stick to her "don't cheat on me" stand, and you honor that, then no. I doubt you want to go celibate for the rest of your life. Yes for a while you won't be hooking up beyond gay friends but, someday you will likely want a partner and, that could cause serious waves with her, unless she decides it's okay.
It won't be easy, whatever happens but, you will be happier in the long run.
In your case, if she stick to her "don't cheat on me" stand, and you honor that, then no. I doubt you want to go celibate for the rest of your life. Yes for a while you won't be hooking up beyond gay friends but, someday you will likely want a partner and, that could cause serious waves with her, unless she decides it's okay.
It won't be easy, whatever happens but, you will be happier in the long run.
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