Should i?

[princealbertofb]

Rumble, there is no rush, if you are comfortable telling a few people, then do so. Telling does not have to be a big deal. If you don't think they will take it well, don't tell them. Our sexuality is only a part of who we are, it need not define everything about us.

@ Princealberotfb: Nothing wrong with plural Sirs but, that doesn't enter their heads here, that is for speaking to a large group, a couple is simply supposed to be Sir and Ma'am and, when that isn't the case, they get confused as to how to address us politely.

Given that, Blue, how does the waiter or waitress address two gentlemen eating out together (who aren't necessarily a couple, but could be friends or business partners)? It seems to me that the same address could be used as in your 'confusing' case.