09-02-2012, 08:31 PM
Since he manged to hit your prostate and after that you got blood from the penis, then he at the very least bruised the prostate or the connecting tubes.
The 'wall' between rectum/anal canal and the prostate and the base of the penis is very thin -
![[Image: Fig-445-Rectum-and-anal-canal.jpg]](http://chestofbooks.com/health/anatomy/Human-Body-Construction/images/Fig-445-Rectum-and-anal-canal.jpg)
A kind of good illustration of the interior of a man 'down yonder'.
As you can see there are a bit more things connected to the penis and the urinary tract that pass real close to the rectum wall.
The Seminal Vesicles, cowper's gland, prostate and various other things are separated by a thin membrane (the anus wall) from the anus/rectum proper. None of these are hard fixed in the body. There are attachment points but they all pretty much are free to move around to a degree. Gravity and muscles surrounding all of these areas and the minor fact that we are all relatively solidly packed (as bodies go) means that most things in the body will not shift too much under normal circumstances.
Understand that the rectum, the short canal final canal that straights out from the last bit of colon proper, where your partner's penis is going is a 'short' canal about 3-6 inches long depending on the individual.
6 inches long. Your partner is how long again? 8 Inches?
While it is possible for him to get all the way in, there is two inches that your body needs to adjust for.
While it is possible to straighten out the lowest part of colon (the part that meets the rectum) in most cases the rectum itself is going to be 'stretched' lengthways. As it stretches everything along side of it is going to be shifted, stretched, pushed aside.
Do that 'stretching' and moving aside too fast and the fragile tissues will rip, tear and bruise. Not just along the rectum wall, but anything that is close and also being shifted about.
Is it your prostate that has led to penile blood? Possibly, but there are also other things that could be affected that is bleeding.
The Seminal Vesicles are the most likely issue here, they are thin tubes that allow fluids from the Cowper gland and prostate gland to flow to the penis during sex.
Are you bleeding when you urinate (not urine after sex, but other times as well?)
How much blood is there? Spotting may actually not be a problem and pass on its own. Lots of blood or a stream of red when you pee is a major problem and you need to get to the ER now.
Rectal bleeding is most likely the small fact that your anus is not designed for things going up and its definitely not designed for the pistoning of a hard object rubbing against the rectum walls. The truth may be that your rectum may not actually handle a hard poo very well with just the one time out going flow micro scrapes and tears take place let alone the friction of sex.
What does disturb me and makes this troubling is that blood from the penis only happened after he manged to hit your prostate, which may indicate there is an underlying prostate issue. Prostate infections are relatively common, infection can lead to painless swelling (bogginess as one of my doctors said) and are often easily treatable. But, an infected prostate can be overly sensitive and lead to unusual side effects when bounced around, slapped or otherwise 'stimulated'.
Thus in any case, whether you stop bleeding or not, you should see a doctor to get at least a prostate exam.
It may be possible you have something else going on, such as urinary tract crystals (but you would know when one of those puppies passed through). It is also possible you have a hernia down yonder. Many men have hernias and not know it thus the old drop your pants and turn your head and cough routine with the doctor.
You should also talk to your doctor honestly about what it is you do. S/he may have some great advice to making it medically safer for you.
As the others said, wear a condom (I don't care what he says, men are pigs, they lie, they have sex with anything and will lie to your face about it). Take it slow - finger massage and small toy play prior to his penetration with lots of lube will get you used to the whole trauma that is taking place (anal sex is trauma - but then all penetrating sex is traumatic to the body).
Until the bleeding stops, stop having anal sex. Oral sex OK, Masturbation OK as long as its not leading to more bleeding or pain.
If penile bleeding continues after 5 days without more anal sex (the potential damaging effect here) see a doctor soonest (no more than three days past 5).
If bleeding doesn't stop or worsens after 7 days from the anus, see a doctor immediately.
In any case, get a prostate exam and hernia exam. Also talk to your doctor about STDS and lubes and the like.
The 'wall' between rectum/anal canal and the prostate and the base of the penis is very thin -
A kind of good illustration of the interior of a man 'down yonder'.
As you can see there are a bit more things connected to the penis and the urinary tract that pass real close to the rectum wall.
The Seminal Vesicles, cowper's gland, prostate and various other things are separated by a thin membrane (the anus wall) from the anus/rectum proper. None of these are hard fixed in the body. There are attachment points but they all pretty much are free to move around to a degree. Gravity and muscles surrounding all of these areas and the minor fact that we are all relatively solidly packed (as bodies go) means that most things in the body will not shift too much under normal circumstances.
Understand that the rectum, the short canal final canal that straights out from the last bit of colon proper, where your partner's penis is going is a 'short' canal about 3-6 inches long depending on the individual.
6 inches long. Your partner is how long again? 8 Inches?
While it is possible for him to get all the way in, there is two inches that your body needs to adjust for.
While it is possible to straighten out the lowest part of colon (the part that meets the rectum) in most cases the rectum itself is going to be 'stretched' lengthways. As it stretches everything along side of it is going to be shifted, stretched, pushed aside.
Do that 'stretching' and moving aside too fast and the fragile tissues will rip, tear and bruise. Not just along the rectum wall, but anything that is close and also being shifted about.
Is it your prostate that has led to penile blood? Possibly, but there are also other things that could be affected that is bleeding.
The Seminal Vesicles are the most likely issue here, they are thin tubes that allow fluids from the Cowper gland and prostate gland to flow to the penis during sex.
Are you bleeding when you urinate (not urine after sex, but other times as well?)
How much blood is there? Spotting may actually not be a problem and pass on its own. Lots of blood or a stream of red when you pee is a major problem and you need to get to the ER now.
Rectal bleeding is most likely the small fact that your anus is not designed for things going up and its definitely not designed for the pistoning of a hard object rubbing against the rectum walls. The truth may be that your rectum may not actually handle a hard poo very well with just the one time out going flow micro scrapes and tears take place let alone the friction of sex.
What does disturb me and makes this troubling is that blood from the penis only happened after he manged to hit your prostate, which may indicate there is an underlying prostate issue. Prostate infections are relatively common, infection can lead to painless swelling (bogginess as one of my doctors said) and are often easily treatable. But, an infected prostate can be overly sensitive and lead to unusual side effects when bounced around, slapped or otherwise 'stimulated'.
Thus in any case, whether you stop bleeding or not, you should see a doctor to get at least a prostate exam.
It may be possible you have something else going on, such as urinary tract crystals (but you would know when one of those puppies passed through). It is also possible you have a hernia down yonder. Many men have hernias and not know it thus the old drop your pants and turn your head and cough routine with the doctor.
You should also talk to your doctor honestly about what it is you do. S/he may have some great advice to making it medically safer for you.
As the others said, wear a condom (I don't care what he says, men are pigs, they lie, they have sex with anything and will lie to your face about it). Take it slow - finger massage and small toy play prior to his penetration with lots of lube will get you used to the whole trauma that is taking place (anal sex is trauma - but then all penetrating sex is traumatic to the body).
Until the bleeding stops, stop having anal sex. Oral sex OK, Masturbation OK as long as its not leading to more bleeding or pain.
If penile bleeding continues after 5 days without more anal sex (the potential damaging effect here) see a doctor soonest (no more than three days past 5).
If bleeding doesn't stop or worsens after 7 days from the anus, see a doctor immediately.
In any case, get a prostate exam and hernia exam. Also talk to your doctor about STDS and lubes and the like.
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