09-03-2012, 02:10 AM
Bowyn has some good tips.
I think we each have our own way of ending anal virginity. Of course you know lots of lube and take it slowly. If I'm introducing a partner to being an anal bottom, I like to get him off either using my hand or my mouth while I insert my fingers into him, one at first and working to two or even three. Then no rest, I slowly take him. He's pretty relaxed and still thinking about just having ejaculated, so he isn't going to tense up much, and he'll relax again each time I stop pressing in. When he relaxes, I press in a bit more. Maybe tops five minutes and he's bucking against me - I've found his prostate by then and, he's learned that, though it hurts a little, it isn't anything to tense up over, and, just going with it makes it feel better.
The biggest thing is the bottom needs to relax, and the top needs to go slow and, neither of you can get frustrated with the time it takes to get it right the first few times. Position isn't that important but, I'd save spoon for later as that's the most difficult one to stay inside your partner doing. Even this old dog ruins that one by popping out too many times now and then LOL.
I think we each have our own way of ending anal virginity. Of course you know lots of lube and take it slowly. If I'm introducing a partner to being an anal bottom, I like to get him off either using my hand or my mouth while I insert my fingers into him, one at first and working to two or even three. Then no rest, I slowly take him. He's pretty relaxed and still thinking about just having ejaculated, so he isn't going to tense up much, and he'll relax again each time I stop pressing in. When he relaxes, I press in a bit more. Maybe tops five minutes and he's bucking against me - I've found his prostate by then and, he's learned that, though it hurts a little, it isn't anything to tense up over, and, just going with it makes it feel better.
The biggest thing is the bottom needs to relax, and the top needs to go slow and, neither of you can get frustrated with the time it takes to get it right the first few times. Position isn't that important but, I'd save spoon for later as that's the most difficult one to stay inside your partner doing. Even this old dog ruins that one by popping out too many times now and then LOL.
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