Personal Advice

[dfiant]

I keep telling him that we're just going to have to keep tryin an eventually it will happen.

Not a good thing to say to 'take the pressure off' I'm afraid.

The inability to have successful and comfortable anal sex usually comes down to performance anxiety. The spincter muscle is one of the toughest muscles in the body and it needs to be relaxed to 'let it in' and if their is anxiety and fear, then that lil muscle is never going to relax enough.

Of course, some people are just not built for anal penetration and that is something you both have to consider and accept and find alternatives.