09-03-2012, 06:17 PM
Performance anxiety can "deflate" any of us faster than just about anything else. I know it happens to me every time I do a demo at a dungeon. Yes I know I'm good with the ropes and, the Master or Mistress of the dungeon would not give me a novice to do the demo with. Logically I know it will be perfect, safe and beautiful but, that does nothing for my anxiety over being out there in an outfit that hides my legs and little else and knowing I have to get it right and somehow get my partner to orgasm while suspended in front of the audience. As for me out there, FORGET IT! My mind is to busy running in circles over everything I have to do and how to make it perfect for my partner to spare any blood for that other head down there LOL
What you're doing is much easier than Kinbaku so, quit over thinking it, just use a ton of lube relax and let ti take as long as it takes. Have fun, don't let your brain hog all of the blood
What you're doing is much easier than Kinbaku so, quit over thinking it, just use a ton of lube relax and let ti take as long as it takes. Have fun, don't let your brain hog all of the blood
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