09-05-2012, 04:36 PM
You might not want to hear it, but it is possible to be naturally asexual. Believe me, if that's the case, you aren't the only one. And, just like any other sexual orientation, it has nothing to with behavior, it's defined by which gender you are sexually attracted to.
There is also demisexual, people who need to have a strong emotional bond with someone before they feel any sexual attraction and, if they are not in a relationship are like asexuals.
Doesn't mean you can't have sex, or won't or that you don't have a libido, just neither gender does it for you, or you need the emotional attachment first (if that's a fantasy in your head when viewing porn) And, there is nothing abnormal or wrong with that, if that's you then that's how you're made and, it's fine.
Whatever the case, if you've seen a doctor to rule out any physical reasons, then either it's psychological or, it's naturally how you are.
There is also demisexual, people who need to have a strong emotional bond with someone before they feel any sexual attraction and, if they are not in a relationship are like asexuals.
Doesn't mean you can't have sex, or won't or that you don't have a libido, just neither gender does it for you, or you need the emotional attachment first (if that's a fantasy in your head when viewing porn) And, there is nothing abnormal or wrong with that, if that's you then that's how you're made and, it's fine.
Whatever the case, if you've seen a doctor to rule out any physical reasons, then either it's psychological or, it's naturally how you are.