09-05-2012, 09:10 PM
It is most likely too late to just stop 'seeing porn' and expect your expectations of sex and men to change.
You already set a precedence through the years of watching porn and masturbating. Maybe you set many precedences, such as expecting 'the perfect man' (in bed) to look like your favorite porn star(s) coupled with defined roles and script that go with sex. Maybe the whole dick size thing matters to you. Seriously few porn actors have 'average' dick sizes, most got their job because they have above average endowments.
Is it possible to break this chain? Unknown. I have no idea how far into porn you are and what your expectations are due to all of that porn.
I do think that you will have to work harder at finding the right man (over the perfect man). And you most likely are going to be focusing on other things other than 'fucking'.
I doubt your libido is broken, and I doubt you are asexual. You just have set unrealistic expectations that really don't fit into the real world....
You already set a precedence through the years of watching porn and masturbating. Maybe you set many precedences, such as expecting 'the perfect man' (in bed) to look like your favorite porn star(s) coupled with defined roles and script that go with sex. Maybe the whole dick size thing matters to you. Seriously few porn actors have 'average' dick sizes, most got their job because they have above average endowments.
Is it possible to break this chain? Unknown. I have no idea how far into porn you are and what your expectations are due to all of that porn.
I do think that you will have to work harder at finding the right man (over the perfect man). And you most likely are going to be focusing on other things other than 'fucking'.
I doubt your libido is broken, and I doubt you are asexual. You just have set unrealistic expectations that really don't fit into the real world....
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