09-06-2012, 03:55 AM
I would suggest spending more time looking at guys in real life, at school, at the mall, a big event in your city. Think about what's attractive. You'd be surprised at what you find attractive. My other suggestion try to look beyond the looks. Get to know some of the people you are meeting because you never know what might come from a friendship. You need some real life experience. There are some really attractive, both physically and personality, people out there
I am like you in that I have spent the last several years in the masturbation mode. In my opinion this can condition you and make it hard for you in real life. I'm not into porn, at least porn with nakedness and sexual acts. I seem to be perfectly attracted to guys in everyday life. However, I really like guys with perky butts and toned legs. I also have a thing for underwear like briefs, trunks, or the shorter underwear. I don't like boxers, they don't look sexy to me. Interesting enough, I met a guy at a club about 6 months ago. He wasn't my ideal guy, wore boxers, not the nicest butt, but he was kind of cute. Long story short, we ended up kissing and cuddling for a while. He was so gentle and was a really good kisser. I have actually kissed a few other guys since then and none of them compare to him. Why am I telling you this? Because someone I didn't think would arouse me did.
My other story, I seemed to like guys who were a little more broad chested, not too big, but big enough to show that they worked out. I once hugged a guy like that and realized I couldn't truly hold him like I wanted to because I'm a little on the small side. Why am I telling you this? Because during some of my masturbation sessions, guys like him where in my head, but in real life that didn't seem to turn me on.
Someone already mentioned this, but maybe you need an emotional attachment first. I could see this the case for me because I am really a reserved, goal-oriented and moral person. I think if I met someone who was caring, patient, had a good head on their shoulders and wasn't the hottest thing, I really think we could have satisfying sex.
Your tastes may change as time goes on so don't base everything on how you feel now.
I am like you in that I have spent the last several years in the masturbation mode. In my opinion this can condition you and make it hard for you in real life. I'm not into porn, at least porn with nakedness and sexual acts. I seem to be perfectly attracted to guys in everyday life. However, I really like guys with perky butts and toned legs. I also have a thing for underwear like briefs, trunks, or the shorter underwear. I don't like boxers, they don't look sexy to me. Interesting enough, I met a guy at a club about 6 months ago. He wasn't my ideal guy, wore boxers, not the nicest butt, but he was kind of cute. Long story short, we ended up kissing and cuddling for a while. He was so gentle and was a really good kisser. I have actually kissed a few other guys since then and none of them compare to him. Why am I telling you this? Because someone I didn't think would arouse me did.
My other story, I seemed to like guys who were a little more broad chested, not too big, but big enough to show that they worked out. I once hugged a guy like that and realized I couldn't truly hold him like I wanted to because I'm a little on the small side. Why am I telling you this? Because during some of my masturbation sessions, guys like him where in my head, but in real life that didn't seem to turn me on.
Someone already mentioned this, but maybe you need an emotional attachment first. I could see this the case for me because I am really a reserved, goal-oriented and moral person. I think if I met someone who was caring, patient, had a good head on their shoulders and wasn't the hottest thing, I really think we could have satisfying sex.
Your tastes may change as time goes on so don't base everything on how you feel now.
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