09-06-2012, 01:36 AM
For me, a handful of friends is enough, and even if I don't talk to them but once a month or so, that's fine. I can't say I've ever felt lonely. Sure I've spent much of my life alone, but never felt sad or depressed because I was alone.
Maybe that's because I learned young that in the end, I only have myself to rely on for anything, and that includes company. As I was taught young, all you really need in life is a good bed and a good meal, anything else is a bonus. That includes a partner, friends, and such for me. Sure they are great to have, but I'm not lonely just because I'm alone.
I have my hobbies and animals, things I like to do to keep myself occupied and, for me being alone means I can do things my way in my own time and not have to answer to anyone, or wait on anyone when I'm out doing things. I enjoy it.
Maybe that's because I learned young that in the end, I only have myself to rely on for anything, and that includes company. As I was taught young, all you really need in life is a good bed and a good meal, anything else is a bonus. That includes a partner, friends, and such for me. Sure they are great to have, but I'm not lonely just because I'm alone.
I have my hobbies and animals, things I like to do to keep myself occupied and, for me being alone means I can do things my way in my own time and not have to answer to anyone, or wait on anyone when I'm out doing things. I enjoy it.