09-06-2012, 09:09 AM
I think Blue said some very important things....
Many people have never learned to be alone for a while.... they feel very fast lonely if there is not a bunch of people around or a party at the next door. But if you ask if the have friends, they have... mostly a lot.... then I just can say: Maybe the wrong friends....
I´m alone the most time.... and I really like it. I have my man, my ( really few ) friends... I have my animals... I have some nice neighbours... and I have a phone and a internet thats enough ... sometimes to much. But I´m alone 12 from 14 days....
So..whats to advice.... learn to be alone... just with yourself. Find out your own hobbies, what YOU like... do what you want to do. Stop thinking "I´m lonely"... think "I´m today alone..but not lonely"
Many people have never learned to be alone for a while.... they feel very fast lonely if there is not a bunch of people around or a party at the next door. But if you ask if the have friends, they have... mostly a lot.... then I just can say: Maybe the wrong friends....
I´m alone the most time.... and I really like it. I have my man, my ( really few ) friends... I have my animals... I have some nice neighbours... and I have a phone and a internet thats enough ... sometimes to much. But I´m alone 12 from 14 days....
So..whats to advice.... learn to be alone... just with yourself. Find out your own hobbies, what YOU like... do what you want to do. Stop thinking "I´m lonely"... think "I´m today alone..but not lonely"