Let's be blunt, someone tell me how to get my boyfriend to have sex with me.

[Blue]

Well, anal is not the only way you two can pleasure each other sexually. I'd suggest a couple of things fist make sure he gets off before you try to top him, that will help him be more relaxed. Second, try mixing this, or a similar product 50/50 with your usual lube, and, if it isn't enough, use more of this and less of your usual.

It's water based, edible and a big help for new comers to being an anal bottom.

http://www.kamasutra.com/all/pleasure-ba...g-gel.html