Let's be blunt, someone tell me how to get my boyfriend to have sex with me.

[hiben]

Yeah he has, and I think I'm going to have to show him that it can be done with him doing it to me first, before we go the other way. Just it feels more natural with us lying together and we always kind of move to a "me on top" position when we get into heavy kissing and whatnot.

And I knew I would get the "oral sex is real sex too" thing when I posted that, I probably should have picked different words. We just want to be more intimate then we have been, and we want to be inside of each other, essentially And not just in the mouth. I give shitty head anyway. I should probably just let him penetrate me first. I'm aware that not all guys have anal sex but I've accomplished it successfully many times with other guys, some of whom have been as small or smaller in stature than he is.

Thanks for the advice everyone!