Let's be blunt, someone tell me how to get my boyfriend to have sex with me.

[Samdabisa]

yes, anal sex. We've been doing oral and whatever else for a while now. I know he wants to do it also but I just think he's a little too afraid. He'll always try and avoid it

Speaking from my own experiences, I consider myself a bottom but have only been penetrated twice. I've mostly been an oral person and don't mind that. I do want to be penetrated more in the future, but I know I want to feel comfortable with the person. One of the two guys that topped me kept licking my ear, and sticking it in. It turned me complete off.