Let's be blunt, someone tell me how to get my boyfriend to have sex with me.

[NrtdSandlin]

I would have to say that your boyfriend would have to learn to become comfortable w himself first. He needs to come under a realization that he will be bottoming but he also needs to practice. Bottoming is no swing in the park. It truly takes a lot of effort and its still a difficult thig to do sometimes. Just give him time but cheer him along. Things will get better if you both work on it.