Looking for the Right things to say....

[fenris]

If you really and sure know... why playing a "game" .... tell him what you know and tell him that you are on his side... that he is your son
restraint is a nice thing ... but I can´t see that it brings a benefit here.

Wait for a good moment ... take care that you both have a lot of time... switch off the phone and talk....

I advice a gay Son the same ... be honest... be fair... and I think that works for a father of a gay son in the same way....