10-04-2012, 09:47 PM
I wouldn't say I was shy before I came out. Through my teens and into my early 20's I would describe myself as reclusive. Given the homophobia that existed in the 1980's, that was the only way I felt safe. I resented that fact and sometimes I would get angry, but eventually you find the inner strength to not only accept yourself but to love yourself and allow people to see who you are.