10-25-2012, 07:41 AM
Just going by this and thinking of people I've come across I'd guess he's insecure and feeling guilt at his indulgences. By calling people who masturbate and into porn "sick" (assuming he didn't mean that as a compliment of course 
) then he can feel better about himself.
But another possibility may be that he sees a difference between a relationship and sex. Things like orgies and threesomes are generally for singles, or so it seems to me (granted, swingers and polyamory exist, but that seems to work by different rules than "getting a guest star"). Such sex normally doesn't mean anything, but sex in a relationship does, and to share that with a stranger devalues it for some people, like if you were to get a tattoo together and then got the same tattoo with someone else, it's not longer special, it's no longer purely his. And then there's the question he may ask of why isn't he enough? And if he is enough then why the porn and desire for another? If he's not enough then what's wrong with him?
Anyway, those are possibilities that occur to me.
) then he can feel better about himself. But another possibility may be that he sees a difference between a relationship and sex. Things like orgies and threesomes are generally for singles, or so it seems to me (granted, swingers and polyamory exist, but that seems to work by different rules than "getting a guest star"). Such sex normally doesn't mean anything, but sex in a relationship does, and to share that with a stranger devalues it for some people, like if you were to get a tattoo together and then got the same tattoo with someone else, it's not longer special, it's no longer purely his. And then there's the question he may ask of why isn't he enough? And if he is enough then why the porn and desire for another? If he's not enough then what's wrong with him?
Anyway, those are possibilities that occur to me.
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