05-25-2007, 12:23 AM
Why do you want to find guys, they suck anyway ...ah maybe bacause of that? 
But seriously now yes it is how you say , and i may add if you dont sleep with them they loose interest. I have the same problem. Logical thing to do is go on a date keep your pants on. If you get a second date make it good and hopefully you get a few more if chemistry is there, if not move on. It takes time and a lot of dating to find the right guy. As for where to find guys i ll suggest you join an outdoor activity group for gay men- if you got any where you live. It's much more relaxed and you get too meet people that running 100miles takes their hardon away and can think a lill better lol
But seriously now yes it is how you say , and i may add if you dont sleep with them they loose interest. I have the same problem. Logical thing to do is go on a date keep your pants on. If you get a second date make it good and hopefully you get a few more if chemistry is there, if not move on. It takes time and a lot of dating to find the right guy. As for where to find guys i ll suggest you join an outdoor activity group for gay men- if you got any where you live. It's much more relaxed and you get too meet people that running 100miles takes their hardon away and can think a lill better lol
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