Trying to stay strong

[Udabar]

OK, Here's what I have to say on the whole matter.

I have been down that same road, except the guy I was into wasent doped up on coke... It was anything and everything he could get his hands on. I hate, let me say this again, HATE drugs. I was so into him that I was able to over look all the drugs he did and just see him. I never once saw the world around me revolving much less change one bit the entire 6 months I was hanging around him. I was a sad tragic end... He wound up basically throwing me to the curb like I was yesterdays trash when he found someone new.

I understand completely how you feel... and it is a bad feeling. It's like your whole heart and soul was just ripped from your body, hung on a clothes line to dry and then ran through a shredder.

But you are absolutely right, all you have to do is give it time. Depending on how much you liked him, it may be a long time. I believe it took me a year and a half to get over that guy. But to this day now, I keep my guard up, and standards high. I guess thats why I'm still single. Looking for someone who I can trust, doesnt do drugs and who is looking for a relationship.. not just sex.