How to make up with my boyfriend? I'm desperate.

[Evan88]

I'm really sorry to hear about that...

I don't really know what you said which offended him, but I suppose it's a big thing which made him react like that...

For me, there is very much hope for your relationship since you two are still living in one house.

Since he is still a bit upset, maybe do things that he likes... For 5 years that you have been with him, you probably know what makes him tick and what makes his heart melt. Do this for him, like for example he has a favorite food, cook or buy it for him... Tell him how much you value him & your relationship, and of course a sincere apology with a nice calm voice would be a big help. If he won't listen, just hug him and say sorry and that you didn't mean what you said...

Another thing I can think of is to write a letter... Leave it somewhere where he can see it

These kind of situations are really uncontrollable since the pace would depend on him cause he's the one who got offended... If it still doesn't work, maybe just wait for him to finally be okay but of course don't push him to talk to you if he really doesn't want to.. I know he will in time.. And i wish all the best for you..