01-27-2014, 12:03 AM
Hello,
There is nothing worse than living in an atmosphere. Nobody benefits.
Relationships and even proper friendships are about falling out and falling and so it goes on.
As regards what you might do, I would have a better idea if I knew his starsign and what exactly you did. Some people sulk in this scenario, others distance themselves, others forgive.
At the end of the day you cannot make up his mind for him. You have apologized - you cannot do anything more. However it may depend on what you did. Your post leads me to believe you didnt cheat so you were insensitive. That can be really hurtful sometimes and time heals it eventually.
There are several things you can do here.
1. You can give him space and let him think it through - very hard to do!
2. You could cook him a romantic meal and have scented candles all over the place with his favourite music. You could leave him little notes saying how much you love him.
3. You could invite friends over for a surprise party - at least it would get him talking. After that you could tell him how much he means to you and that you wish that you could make up as tomorrow might be too late as nobody knows what is around the corner. Tell him that you know you did wrong but it is eating you up inside to see him unhappy (don't mention how bad you feel inside) and you just didn't think before you spoke.
You know him better than we do and you know what you have done but to try everything means putting yourself in his shoes and finding out what he really likes and then doing the special loving things that a boyfriend who really loves his boyfriend does.
I hope this gives you some ideas?
There is nothing worse than living in an atmosphere. Nobody benefits.
Relationships and even proper friendships are about falling out and falling and so it goes on.
As regards what you might do, I would have a better idea if I knew his starsign and what exactly you did. Some people sulk in this scenario, others distance themselves, others forgive.
At the end of the day you cannot make up his mind for him. You have apologized - you cannot do anything more. However it may depend on what you did. Your post leads me to believe you didnt cheat so you were insensitive. That can be really hurtful sometimes and time heals it eventually.
There are several things you can do here.
1. You can give him space and let him think it through - very hard to do!
2. You could cook him a romantic meal and have scented candles all over the place with his favourite music. You could leave him little notes saying how much you love him.
3. You could invite friends over for a surprise party - at least it would get him talking. After that you could tell him how much he means to you and that you wish that you could make up as tomorrow might be too late as nobody knows what is around the corner. Tell him that you know you did wrong but it is eating you up inside to see him unhappy (don't mention how bad you feel inside) and you just didn't think before you spoke.
You know him better than we do and you know what you have done but to try everything means putting yourself in his shoes and finding out what he really likes and then doing the special loving things that a boyfriend who really loves his boyfriend does.
I hope this gives you some ideas?
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