02-20-2014, 04:33 AM
It really depends on the guy. Some guys need LOTS of lube some guys just a little extra slick is all you need. There's no canned premade answer, you have to play with your man and feel him out and listen to what he likes and you get to know his needs.
The relative sizes of the pieces make a difference too. Big insertion into a tight hole, more lube is needed, small insertion into a loose hole, not much needed etc.
Loosening up with tongue and fingers helps the bottom relax but unless you have really thick fingers the actual penis is going to open him up more so it needs to go in slowly at first, let him relax his muscles and let it in, then you can gently start moving and as he gets used to it work up to a rythm he's comfortable with.
My suggestion is do research, a lot of research, it's fun, and it will make your writing much better.
Richard
The relative sizes of the pieces make a difference too. Big insertion into a tight hole, more lube is needed, small insertion into a loose hole, not much needed etc.
Loosening up with tongue and fingers helps the bottom relax but unless you have really thick fingers the actual penis is going to open him up more so it needs to go in slowly at first, let him relax his muscles and let it in, then you can gently start moving and as he gets used to it work up to a rythm he's comfortable with.
My suggestion is do research, a lot of research, it's fun, and it will make your writing much better.
Richard
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