What to do

[marshlander]

I considered that route, especially as we where both due to attend the same football match! But I would have to come up with a reason as to why i'm hanging out with someone (who i would seemingly knoiw quite well) yet they've never heard of him. Cant even use the uni excuse after they came to stay with me there

On another note, I feel I may say something this weekend, seeing how the convo goes and what the mood is like, i'll prob bottle though haha

Whatever you do, I wish you the best.

I never had a gang of friends, so I didn't really have the same kind of thing to deal with. I was pretty much on the outer edge of any social group at school, although I had serial single closer friends. I don't really know how I would have dealt with it in your place. However, coming out in middle age did present me with somewhat different challenges