03-24-2010, 03:04 PM
I think all the options on offer are fine, depending on where you're at in your life. I wouldn't have wanted a committed relationship before trying the others first. I don't really understand how people can want the commitment with a person they have never had a one-night stand with, if you understand my drift. I'm in a monogamous relationship with the man I love now but we went through the stages of 1. a one night stand. 2. an open relationship and 3. committed monogamy. He ought to be committed for putting up with me! lol