12-29-2008, 01:57 AM
Hey Wiltur
Considering whether he reeli has got this physical/mental problem, If I was you I wud still not ignore my feelings. It is good trying to help him and all that BUT, for the sake of the relationship and I'd say for the sake of myself..I wud take a break.....deffo some time to think about wot to do next.
I wud advise you guys not 2 see/talk to eachothers, for a week, or better? a month.
Hang out with your friends and do all the things you usually do during your normal days.
No communication with eachothers whatsoever.
It might be one morning, it might be one night when you will really understand what is the best for your relationship....
Forgive him? - Break up?
Your heart should tell you....just follow that message when u get it and you shall never regret it (hopefully).
All the best!
Rik
Considering whether he reeli has got this physical/mental problem, If I was you I wud still not ignore my feelings. It is good trying to help him and all that BUT, for the sake of the relationship and I'd say for the sake of myself..I wud take a break.....deffo some time to think about wot to do next.
I wud advise you guys not 2 see/talk to eachothers, for a week, or better? a month.
Hang out with your friends and do all the things you usually do during your normal days.
No communication with eachothers whatsoever.
It might be one morning, it might be one night when you will really understand what is the best for your relationship....
Forgive him? - Break up?
Your heart should tell you....just follow that message when u get it and you shall never regret it (hopefully).
All the best!
Rik