Am I really gay?

[Adam]

I'm trying to follow the logic, which is always a bad idea at 4am, but anyway...

So...what? I'm attracted to very masculine guys --- does that mean I'm more gay than you?

And...I consider my BF to be hot, but I don't automatically get an erection at the sight of him naked. Depending on the circumstances, I'm just as likely to yell, Get dressed and go feed the baby and let me sleep!

Sexual orientation is not a choice.