Addendum To The Threesome Question...

[AdamAndWill]

[quote=ChitChat]I tend to agree OkayOkay. I used to have such concrete concepts of relationship do's and don'ts. I've been with people who wanted to have things outside of the relationship and spent time talking me into it until I finally gave in. Then they would come back and have a problem with it even though it was their idea if the first place. Go figure! Then again I have been with people that were already doing things like that and did a reversal and didn't want anythng but monogamous. I guess what I learned is that it is really a very individual decision to make and understanding all the possible outcomes of it that could happen later on. I'd be real danged sure (as I have stated before concerning this) that there is a very GOOD line of communication between all individuals BEFORE it happens. Of course not all indivduals think thay way either. I like your detail though. It makes a very valid point.[/QUOTE

(Adam) I couldn't agree more with what you say about communication - to me, that's what makes or breaks a relationship. Will and I have been together 6 years and thought we had it nailed, but over the past months have ended up in couples therapy trying to sort out some pretty basic issues. Go figure.
I have NO idea why he started musing about threesomes --- what with our jobs, all the details of daily life and trying to bring up a kid, we barely have time for twosomes lol. But yeah, you guys are right that things change with time. 5 years ago we would have had no problem with a threesome or almost anything else. Now, it wouldn't work for either of us. In our case, we feel like that's progress.