Addendum To The Threesome Question...

[Virge]

If you're not into it, then you're just not into it. But it can be pure hedonistic sex in the right circumstances. Best done when you are far from home on vacation, where there is no possibility of seeing the third guy again, so no romantic feelings can get very far if they do surface.

And with all I said that was against threesomes I don't expect my relationship not change in ten or twenty years even though I can't see it now. One day Jay and I may want to do threesomes but it will definitely be way down the road. Right now I'm liking the feeling of him feeling he owns me and the same goes for him. it's not us being old fashioned or prudish but recognizing that an involvement with an third person would mess up the magic that's going on now and there's nothing wrong with making it last as long as it will last.