Addendum To The Threesome Question...

[AdamAndWill]

And with all I said that was against threesomes I don't expect my relationship not change in ten or twenty years even though I can't see it now. One day Jay and I may want to do threesomes but it will definitely be way down the road. Right now I'm liking the feeling of him feeling he owns me and the same goes for him. it's not us being old fashioned or prudish but recognizing that an involvement with an third person would mess up the magic that's going on now and there's nothing wrong with making it last as long as it will last.

(Adam) Exactly - and it's lasted for us through 5 1/2 years of living together and just gets better. IDK, but maybe the reason we feel so strongly about being sexually exclusive is the connection - and yeah, at times it seemed like it was the only connection we had, but it was strong enough to get us through. So many people, gay and straight, seem to give up and move on if things get bad, but that's never been an option for us --- too damn stubborn I guess. And I have no idea how it will be in a week or a month or in years to come. We go with what works at the moment.