08-07-2014, 03:57 PM
memechose Wrote:Adam is dead on with what he said.I agree, memechose, that there is probably more to this story but to say "the only person who abused you was YOU," is not accurate. I think I understand where you are coming from. A person should take responsibility for their actions and behaviors. However, when someone is essentially holding you prisoner against your will and making unwanted sexual advances, this is an assaultive situation.
The only thing he didn't say was the only person who abused you was YOU.
I don't believe you've told the whole story but I'm not judging you for that,
just wondering why you didn't tell us everything.
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