emotional and sexual abuse?

[meridannight]

first of all, it is not your fault. so don't blame yourself for this.

i'm sorry this happened to you. you should stop having any kind of contact with him. it's obvious this guy doesn't care one bit about what you want and thought he could get you to have sex with him no matter what. he probably thought you were just playing hard to get with him, or it doesn't matter what his logic was. guys like that can be dangerous, keeping meeting OR talking to him will make him think that you want him even if you don't admit it, and next time it can be much worse than him simply suggesting things to do. you keep showing up he will think you like what has happened so far. rape is not a progression far removed from there.

he could make up some stories but that is not a reason to keep seeing him. it will make you live in fear and, moreover, keeping meeting with him will only dig you in further as far as third persons are concerned. cut it off now and get out. you should also tell your boyfriend about this. better he hears it from you than some stranger. so be honest with him.