08-07-2014, 04:18 PM
ks7 Wrote:after the first time I stopped speaking to him. but I felt guilty and he would get irritable with me. eventually i started speaking to him again and we would just chat and I didnt think he would try again.
I think i felt pressured. I dont mean to be sounding like a victim, but im not very confident in these situations. If someone gets angry with me I have a hard time fighting back
thanks for your reply
Please understand that we aren't trying to make you feel worse about this than you already do. For me, at least, it's pretty damn frustrating to see someone being bullied - and yes, among other things, he's a bully. I know it's easy for us to tell you to stand up for yourself - but you've put yourself in serious physical danger twice now. Don't ever underestimate what people like him are capable of.
I hope the talk with your BF goes well, and please - in the future, keep yourself safe. Pleasing others at your own expense will bring you nothing but unhappiness.