08-08-2014, 12:10 AM
I agree with what's been said so fa and I'm glad that you're going to tell your boyfriend.
That said, I have a suggestion for you.
You said that you went with the guy the second time because you felt guilty.... or felt pressured.
You need to remember something. You can't please everyone all the time, yeah? It's impossible. You need to keep this in mind when dealing with others, and make sure that the person you hold yourself up to pleasing is your partner first.... BEFORE you worry about pleasing others. This means your first question when anyone asks you to do something is..... what would my partner think/feel about this.
That said, I have a suggestion for you.
You said that you went with the guy the second time because you felt guilty.... or felt pressured.
You need to remember something. You can't please everyone all the time, yeah? It's impossible. You need to keep this in mind when dealing with others, and make sure that the person you hold yourself up to pleasing is your partner first.... BEFORE you worry about pleasing others. This means your first question when anyone asks you to do something is..... what would my partner think/feel about this.
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