06-16-2010, 04:02 AM
Four years ago, my partner and I had an amazing wedding--one of the best days of our lives, with our family and close friends there to celebrate with us. Alas, we live in a state where gay marriage won't be a possibility for a long time to come, if ever. From the standpoint of legal and moral equality, we deserve to be as married as any straight couple. From the standpoint of my happiness every day, things are good.