this is how i feel

[AdamAndWill]

Instead of just sitting there watching everyone else, why didn't you introduce yourself and make some new friends whom were there when you were there? You had a perfect opportunity, and you did nothing but sit there feeling sorry for yourself pouting over perceived losses in the middle of so much potential.

I'll give you a hint... THIS is why you're alone.

If you don't want to be alone, you gotta get up off your ass and put some effort into it. NOW!

Will: Exactly. You'll be surprised how welcoming people can be if you make the effort.

I used to try to figure out why Adam always seemed to be surrounded by people - old ladies, little kids, homeless guys on the bus - and I finally realized it's because he's genuinely interested in people. He smiles, makes eye contact - people respond to that. If you're just standing there, deep into yourself, you don't seem approachable.

I know that it isn't easy, I'm not exactly Mr. Congeniality myself - but go ahead and make the effort, it does pay off.