08-23-2014, 07:06 AM
East Wrote:Same for me. I quite like the company of men and I naturally gravitate toward talking to men wherever I am. At one time most of guy friends were gay but they mostly have all died so nowadays my guy friends are mostly straight....
I have discovered something along the way...straight guys are really supportive in general BUT my sexuality is a complete non issue and so that is how I am treated and most of the guys actually appreciate the opportunity to have a gay friend and come to terms with it instantly and it becomes a non issue for them as well.
Will: Exactly. Most of my guy friends are straight - we have one gay married couple we hang out with, but they're more Adam's friends than mine.
I don't know what advice to give about how to make guy friends, except maybe look for guys that you have something in common with. For me, it's mainly my co-workers. And, as East said, my sexuality is a non issue.