08-24-2014, 02:13 AM
Okay, I want to share my thoughts on this, too
I myself always had a very hard time talking to guys in general (gay or straight - although, I've only met VERY few gay guys). But this summer, when I was excavating in Greece, I met a guy (straight) and he is now my best friend. Usually, I only have female friends because they are easier to understand (for me) and I feel like they won't judge me when I do something weird - and I really cannot read guys at all. I've enver had a guy friend before him, and now I feel extremely blessed to have him around, as he helps me through so many things. So, I understand why one would have the need to have a same sex friend - although, it is a need I never understood before I met him.
But my point is: It might seem hard to find male friends (even harder to find a boyfriend), but it can happen in a blink of an eye. Relax and enjoy the right and the people you meet on the way. One step on the road, is GS
I myself always had a very hard time talking to guys in general (gay or straight - although, I've only met VERY few gay guys). But this summer, when I was excavating in Greece, I met a guy (straight) and he is now my best friend. Usually, I only have female friends because they are easier to understand (for me) and I feel like they won't judge me when I do something weird - and I really cannot read guys at all. I've enver had a guy friend before him, and now I feel extremely blessed to have him around, as he helps me through so many things. So, I understand why one would have the need to have a same sex friend - although, it is a need I never understood before I met him.
But my point is: It might seem hard to find male friends (even harder to find a boyfriend), but it can happen in a blink of an eye. Relax and enjoy the right and the people you meet on the way. One step on the road, is GS