Finding Male Friends

[TwisttheLeaf]

because no guy wants to be seen anywhere near me for obvious reasons; being called gay themselves, being cut off from their own group of friends and so on...
Any advice on this, or is asking for a guy friend too much?

You -really- need to broaden your social circles man. Not all straight men are like that. In fact, I am very openly interested in men, and yet I -prefer- straight male friends over gay ones in my offline life.

In fact, my closest male friend is straight, and was quarterback in uni when we met. I filled the role of his physical trainer during the off season and when he was in recovery, and we became good friends.

In offline life, I find most gay men I make friends with really just want to get in my pants in one manner or another. Even those that have said they don't, when vulnerabilities start showing, they start.... working their way to wheedling in to get a start in that direction. They also fade off rather quickly when they realize they have absolutely -no- chance in hell.