08-23-2014, 04:34 PM
MoonLemon Wrote:I get the maturity comment a lot too, haha (I'm currently sexually involved with a 47 year old, and it's been eye opening in so many different ways! It came with some initial guilt, but it's been so invigorating learning from an older gay man, as if he were my mentor. Even if we are in some weird limbo of caring for each other but not actually being a couple. The logistics of that wouldn't work out, anyway)
Men cannot be trusted. Sex drives are scary, controlling things (and a very wonderful thing at the same time).
Everything in life is an experience. The best we can do is learn from each little step. Getting a couple bad boyfriends is all part of the cycle, I think.
I totally agree... All experiences, bad, good, bittersweet are good for us on the long run because they make us the person we are today!