Looking for advice

[Pyromancer]

Ok, I get that you just came out to your wife but how long have you been out to yourself (accepted your bisexuality)? Have you ever had sexual experiences with other men?

As for this much younger guy, regardless whether he's gay or not, why would he be interested in you? Has he ever given you any reason to think he is or might be into "much older" guys? Yeah, I get that you "want him," but, so what?

I guess where I'm really coming from is how, to me, it is just so utterly weird that someone would come to a forum full of total strangers and ask for advice about how to insnare a "much younger" guy in some sort of tryst. You know the dude, you see him regularly, surely you have a better sense of who he is than we do. Have you ever talked with him?... and no, I don't mean in the context of doing business at the store where he's being paid to be helpful and nice to customers. Does he know you as a person (not just a customer)? Do you even *like* him as a person? Or is this just acing out some middle-aged fantasy about getting it on with some hot dude that you didn't act out in your younger days?

Whatever the case may be, the whole way you've framed this just seems kind of creepy to me.

So yeah...let me weigh in from the perspective of a "much younger guy" lol...sorry, but I'm with [MENTION=20947]MikeW[/MENTION]...you're "new to this glory"...? And your wife thinks it's "hot", so you want to know how to score with this guy who may or may not be gay...but hey, who gives a shit what his preference is...after all, you Want him...what else matters?

OMFG...