Boyfriend not meeting sexual/intimate needs

[jimcrackcorn]

Two of the most commonly encountered problems in a relationship are sex & money.. You have to learn how to handle both these problems with mutual understanding & agreement. This requires both parties to set down and calmly solve the problem together.

In your case, you have a partner that doesn't want to have sex. He has said it's because he wants to be romanced a little before giving up the goodies,,, but when you do romance him, he still doesn't want to have sex. So,,, he's not telling you the real problem he's having with sex. The next logical step is to get him to open up about whatever the problem really is....

Ask him what he means by "being romanced"... You two may have completely different ideas on what that entails.

Find out what he likes to do in bed. He may have enjoyed being a bottom at the beginning of the relationship,,, but now he wants to do something else. It could be that he has developed an anal fissure or hemorrhoids,, and that is preventing him from wanting sex.

There are literally hundreds of reasons for why he is no longer wanting to have sex. He may not even know what the problem is,, or he's to embarrassed to tell you.

He may need to start seeing a Sex Therapist to work thru what is causing his lack of sexual activity.

Best Wishes,
Jim