Needing advise...might lose my fiancee if I don't figure this out

[Camfer]

Hi Ash, welcome to GS!

Well I think the issue is much deeper and different than just your sexual compatibility. However, it's one issue your partner has brought up, so it's a place you can start. I think you need a sex coach. Yes, they do exist. I know a great lesbian sex coach here, but I found one in Scottsdale. Check this out:

http://www.micheleclarkson.com/

I recommend you two see a sex coach together. If your partner won't go, you should still consider going on your own. From your posting it really does seem like you would benefit from the support and skills that it would offer.

Let us know how things unfold, and good luck to you!