Online Dating

[InbetweenDreams]

Well couple things about that...keep it natural. I don't think there is a right or wrong way...I tend to be more talkative as long as the conversation keeps going.... Nothing worse than two introverts sitting in a room alone. I think the other factor about thing escalating, don't put yourself in an enviroment where things would escalate...no movie at his place after the date... Personally, I think it is a self-control issue more so than getting to know someone too well. Just establish boundries and if you really don't want to have sex or be sexual then don't... Just know yourself, if you're pretty sure things are going to happen if you have him over or vice versa then don't do it or learn to have more self control or simply be up front about it.

As far as talking to guys, keep talking. No matter how much chatting you do with someone you don't really know them until you meet them or end up living with them.

Hope that helps and answers your questions.