Online Dating

[kindy64]

I've had deep, whole night long soul baring conversations with people (male and female) that didn't lead to any sort of romantic/physical connection. I had good friendships develop in the past from that.

I've had hookups that were basically, oh, you want to do that with me, and here are your requirements... sure no problem.

Then there's my boyfriend, who I had chatted with a few times on a social app, but never hooked up with him through that. One day he walked into my apartment with someone else. There was an instant connection there. 10 months later we are still together.

There are no set rules. Learning the ropes is different for everyone. Good guidelines given above. Set realistic boundaries and expectations for the people you meet. That could mean, for instance, that you won't reveal anything that could be used against you until you meet someone in person and develop an in person relationship. Or not baring your ass or soul online. You have to do what's right for you. Protect your emotional and physical wellbeing.

Above all, treat people the way you want to be treated. Don't lie. If you are uncomfortable with something, whether it's talking or physical, say so.