03-09-2016, 02:15 PM
You are a very thoughtful and articulate young man.
I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself to do everything the "right" way. I think that's what everyone is saying, there is no "right" way. They only thing that is right is not harming others in your pursuit of satisfying your own needs. There is no correct order for a relationship to grow.
You might want to look for a local LGBT youth group so you can connect with others in person.
This site came up first in my search for "north melbourne gay youth"
http://www.rainbownetwork.com.au/index.php/find-a-group
I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself to do everything the "right" way. I think that's what everyone is saying, there is no "right" way. They only thing that is right is not harming others in your pursuit of satisfying your own needs. There is no correct order for a relationship to grow.
You might want to look for a local LGBT youth group so you can connect with others in person.
This site came up first in my search for "north melbourne gay youth"
http://www.rainbownetwork.com.au/index.php/find-a-group
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