Aries
03-21-2016, 12:14 AM
Well you don't need me to tell you that sending abusive messages is just plain wrong. You really lost the moral high ground. Plus you kinda validated his acftions he's probably thinking. "Phew I really dodged a bullet with that crazy abusive guy."
But the way I see it this was never going anywhere anyway. If it takes him months just to find time for a secound date then he's simply too busy to establish the relationship he's looking for and he needs to get his life in order first.
In short yes he Jerked you around but it was probably by accident.
The problem is that he seems to have really hit you where it hurts and he's dented your confidence. Sadly I don't know a long-range cure for that.
But I do know what's not helping. It's not healthy to still be hung up on this guy months later, you're just twisting the knife at this point. Delete his contact details and all the messages he sent to you.
Good luck getting back on that horse buddy.
But the way I see it this was never going anywhere anyway. If it takes him months just to find time for a secound date then he's simply too busy to establish the relationship he's looking for and he needs to get his life in order first.
In short yes he Jerked you around but it was probably by accident.
The problem is that he seems to have really hit you where it hurts and he's dented your confidence. Sadly I don't know a long-range cure for that.
But I do know what's not helping. It's not healthy to still be hung up on this guy months later, you're just twisting the knife at this point. Delete his contact details and all the messages he sent to you.
Good luck getting back on that horse buddy.
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